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“Time Heals”, So They Say!

4 Sep

3T7A7466 When someone is going through a rough time we like to tell that person, “time will heal”. Sometimes we don’t even know to what extent that person is hurting- but nothing seems or feels easier than to tell him or her that better day is ahead.

In the past couple years I have lost a few people who met everything to me. One of them was my mother’s one and only brother who passed away in Haiti. That one really hit home for me! Before he passed away, I was working in Haiti. And I only “made time” to see him once.  I truly thought I was a “busy bee” and assumed I had all the times in the World to see my uncle: especially when I already made plan for the following year to go back. I left Haiti and the following day, my uncle passed. I was crushed! Had I known, I would have made my uncle a priority. My uncle passed five years ago and it still hurts today. Mainly because I was away from my family and friends when I was mourning. I was in college and it seemed like I had no shoulder to cry on.

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Hitting Rock Bottom

20 Sep

I understand it all!

10661657_981089251930536_5648916279989682922_o“Why didn’t you tell me?” “Oh, I didn’t think you were  being serious!” Going through depression has to be the hardest phase I had to experience in my entire life. Because of the way I carry myself, someone as hype as I am- explaining to others that I was depressed was the least thing everyone wanted to hear.

The word depression is described as feelings severe despondency and dejection, low spirit, etc.… (Merriam-Webster). I am a high-spirited person! I portray myself in a way that only brings positive energy around others. It even reflects on the way I dress: I wear a lot of fun and vibrant colors, which stand out among others- such as pop colors as neon.

A couple months ago, I have found myself in a place I couldn’t ever imagine: depression. For months, I lost my appetite, panic attack, couldn’t sleep at night, I was dealing and still dealing with a project that I have invested every breath that I’ve got, “4:53”. Through it all, I realized no one really understood me.

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I Am Haiti

13 Jan

I am Haiti

Haiti is Power       Today marks three years since my beautiful island, Haiti, was taken away from me. It is one of these days that I will never forget, it seems like it happened yesterday; although we are now commemorating the third year since the devastating disaster. I lost my childhood memory in less than one minute, 35 seconds to be exact. I lost numerous family members, friends and classmates; most importantly, my children will never know where their mother grew up or where I went to school.

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My 2012 Year Timeline

1 Jan

By: Myrlande “M.C” Charelus

My 2012 Year Timeline

photo Conventionally, this is the time that countless people are taking to reflect and write about their 2013 resolution. While some are contemplating about taking a leap of faith by shifting to a new chapter or losing weight, others are just grateful for everything that they have been blessed with. On the other hand, there are also people who are updating their statuses with the negative experiences they had during 2012, but I opted out and prefer to focus on the positive aspects of 2012. Although I lost a few family members that were dear to me like my uncle, my mom’s only brother, I didn’t expect life to be sweet all the time. Thus, complaining about it won’t bring back what I lost or make me feel better. The only positive thing I can do is to move forward. That’s what I am going to do!

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SeaWorld’s whales against the World

20 Nov

By: Myrlande “M.C” Charelus

Whose fight is it, anyways?

            Some people may view SeaWorld as a place to go for entertainment purposes. Another way is to experience the wildlife without going to the wilderness. The world views people who frequently go to SeaWorld as mammals in captivity’s “supporters”. In other word, these people known as the pro-cap. However, another group thinks differently than the pro-cap. They do not support marine mammals in captivity. They believe that they more connected and their motivation comes from an emotional state of being. In addition, these people known as the anti-cap.

            Anti-cap people believe marine mammals used to live a happy and average life until industry, like SeaWorld, started to imprison them. They believe that the reservoirs provided for the animals are limited their space and are affecting their behavior and health.

 “Marine mammals don’t belong in cages doing tricks for tourists. View the wildlife in the wild. Don’t buy tickets,” said Bea Elliott, a Tumblr blogger.

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Confession of a Haitian working for an American non-profit organization in Haiti

17 Jul

My name is Myrlande Charelus, commonly known as MC. I am a native Haitian. I just thought this was a proper way to start writing this blog. While I was interning in Washington D.C last year, I made a vow to God that I was going to dedicate three months of my life to volunteer either in Haiti or Africa, specifically Rwanda. Not knowing lots about out-of-country internships, I decided to ask my colleagues about it.

Although Haiti was at the top of my list, Rwanda was my number one choice. I knew I wanted to go somewhere I was not familiar. I just wanted to blend within and do what God’s intended me to do. As I spoke to my colleagues about my goals for the next summer, here’s the exact answer I got from one of them, “how do you expect people to help your country when you’re not doing it yourself?” “How do you expect to go clean other people’s home when yours is unclean?” for days I thought about his comments; at first I really didn’t like any of it. I was offended and I didn’t really need others to make my decision anymore. I donated money when I needed to, I prayed about Haiti; I thought to myself that was it. I prayed about it and think about it every single day. Then one day God spoke to me about it and then I finally realized that I needed to do more. There, choice was made. Haiti was my final decision.

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My Biggest Regret: A Young Girl’s Life in Haiti

13 Jul

By Myrlande “M.C” Charelus

Port-au-Prince, Haiti— For those of you who are keeping up with my blog on WordPress, friends with me on Facebook or are following me on Twitter; I constantly talk about her, so you might have read about little Blondina a lot. Blondina is a little girl I have connected with from day one, ever since I started working in Haiti. At first she was my long lost sister from another mother; but then I started to treat her like she was my own daughter and sometimes, we even have the same approach toward certain things.  Below is an article, updating you about her current living condition in Haiti.

Blondina Verney was abandoned by her mother, Linda Pierre, when she was five years old. According to Martine Decius, her foster parent, she was later dropped at a neighbor’s house, where Verney wouldn’t eat unless the people around the neighborhood would cook and hand her something.  Two years ago, Pierre’s brother found Verney and brought her to “Tree of Life”, an orphanage situated in Port-au-Prince, Haiti.  “Tree of Life” is a home that accepted children from newborns to 18-years-old who were either orphans or whose parents couldn’t take care of them.  For children whose parents are capable of sending them to school, a child is supposed to be able to attend school by the age of three; but in Verney’s case, she had never been to school until she started school at “Tree of Life” at the age of five.

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